Can ALL marriages be saved Vol. 2

[Mona52]

He is is so much pain.

I kind of lose hope whenever we talk - he seems so determined.

This is where I have issues too. I see mine was in pain, but he would not do ANYTHING to fix the pain. If he would just do this or read that or GAL or turn to me...
But he does not do any of that, so when we ever do actually talk, I completely lose all hope.

It is impossible, but you have to just let them in their pain. They are doing the only thing they know to fix it. Only time, and a lot of time, will show them that there may be other ways to solve the pain and you may be one of them.