So Zues, I am reading between the lines here, I should throw my H to an alligator, or his mother? Got it!

You are right, I think for my sitch it was a general rant and not directed at me. I believe my H is still in his own head completely unaware of how any of this is affecting me, he is in his own brand of hell and his mother is keeping him there. He needs to figure this out by himself. I believe some of his other rants were designed to get me angry, but not this one. This one is all him.

I am glad you are detached, sounds like a good place to be. I am working on getting there, its a tough one for me. Making small steps towards progress, with some setbacks. But to hear you describe it is inspiring me.

I love your posts, you bring a different perspective to the table and I learn a lot from you. Thank you and hope you have a great day!