I feel a little sad as well..for her

I guess there was a part of me hoping one day that XH could step up to the plate as a father..even just the type of father , his child could call at Christmas once a year

But it is no longer my fight..

My children are no where near perfect, seem smart happy and strong making all good choices-so Im truly blessed and grateful for all I have

It will also be important for me to ask my D to handle situation with love and integrity…knowing nothing happens by mistake and she is willing to close this door with XH if it seems unhealthy for her-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow