Someone did accept friend request.

MY D set up a private account just for this
she is quite smart

But again I think the person who responded was OW and unfortunately Im not sure XH is even in this. No one confirmed they would Skype or call

so D and I discussed it, and if XH does not try to contact her within a week or so she will say her goodbyes to OW , Thank Her, and close the account

I saw the account..Not a typical account..DARK

I do not think we are dealing with a "good" hearted woman who wants to see her H reach out to his only D..I think she is off mentally

But My D is old enough to know the full truth about her Dad and all his choices

If she didn't risk fully, she may always regret not trying to reach out to them.
Thank you all for all your responses


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow