So h and ow broke up (for now) amd he's been coming home. Sleeping on couch. But he's been doing this new thing. He keeps saying it is boring. I'm boring... what can I do at 230 am... when the kids are sleeping. Last night he didn't come home. He went casino. And then he whines about not having any money. Whatever. I know I'm not boring. Yesterday was another busy day. Me day and then nieces bday party. Ugh it's monday... work work work...
Know this, it is called projection. When WH says you are boring he means he is, when he says you haven't changed he means he hasnot. If he says you are stupid that's how he feels about himself.
Damaged individuals find someone with the matching skill, it is their attempt to make themselves whole.
Casino going, scuzzies, addictions, compulsives are all distractions from the inside work he needs to do. Until he accepts the hole in his soul this will be his behaviour.
Is WH normally compulsive?
Does he drink?
Does he smoke?
Does he overspend?
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
