Lost and confused 2

[Sotto]

Hi Clairee, I'm not surprising that is hard. Your H has been home for a while and you could see on a daily basis how you could trust him. Now he is away, you have lost control of that. My H also worked away and I know that feeling. I also wonder how I would overcome that if we were ever to reconcile.

However, I think the crucial thing here is that your H is 110% in and his actions are backing this up. He is making huge efforts to reassure you and doing all that he can to rebuild trust. I think that is what you need to focus on.

Also, focus on making your own plans, letting go and leaving it up to the higher powers. Equally, if there are any further practical things that you can do to build confidence, discuss those with him.

It will get better and take care xx