Expect your WH to start manipulations and the 100% rule applies in spades in his case.
I made " I will not be abused" turn into "I am free, the captain and master of my destiny"
When you are ready, absolutely ready, probably the next spell break, you will no longer validate WH belief you will say " I beg your pardon, the kids are in the car" or " I am sure it is someone else that said that"
I have thought for a while your WH is afraid of facing the consequences and he will try every trick to avoid it.
That day is coming Msd.
As for me I decided that I wanted to be the breeze block, I wanted to be completely totally unattractive as a target to my WH. Be very safe, this is a very dangerous time in abused Rs. Breeze Block is my own version of grey stone, I urge you to google the phrase grey rock abuse technique. ://narcissistsupport.com/going-gray-rock/
I have always thought your WH has a similar streak to mine. I am very careful.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 10/20/1505:17 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW