Piecing sounds so hard. I hope for it, but am terrified of it at the same time.
I am no expert, but I wonder if at times a MLCer senses you are ready to be done. So, they realize they really don't want to lose you, they can't ignore the pull and connection of their spouse that is buried beneath all the crap, although they may not really be ready to work on the R as they are still in the trenches working on themselves. They just can't lose you in the meantime.
IDK, It seems to be a recurring situation. I can't imagine the internal struggle going on, for BOTH of you. You have come this far Cali.....I support you either way and always have an ear to listen to a rant.
I continue to pray for you, hang in there.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-
