October Goals:

Goal: I want to be a better mother to S4
[/color]- I will not lose my temper
- I will validate his feelings
- I will speak softly
- I will call to say good night when we aren't together
- I will plan one new GAL activity for us
- I will give him my undivided attention while playing[color:#6600CC]


Goal: Show compassion towards H
[/color]-I will validate when speaking to him
-I will thank him 2x weekly for things I wouldn't have normally
- I will take deep breaths before responding to texts
- I will have S4 call to say goodnight when they are apart
- I will make eye contact when we see each other[color:#6600CC]


Goal: I will co-parent with the best of them
[/color]- I will put aside our differences for S4's well being when making decisions
- I will inform him of matters pertaining to S4 and ask his opinion
- I will reinforce my boundaries
- I will send pictures of milestones with S4 so he doesn't feel left out[color:#6600CC]


Goal: Be a better me
[/color]- I will continue to attend church on Sundays
- I will go to my weekly plans without fail
- I will exercise 2x a week
- I will catch up with my friends and see how they are doing
- I will continue to make my home feel like mine[color:#6600CC]


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15