Goal: I want to be a better mother to S4 [/color]- I will not lose my temper - I will validate his feelings - I will speak softly - I will call to say good night when we aren't together - I will plan one new GAL activity for us - I will give him my undivided attention while playing[color:#6600CC]
Goal: Show compassion towards H [/color]-I will validate when speaking to him -I will thank him 2x weekly for things I wouldn't have normally - I will take deep breaths before responding to texts - I will have S4 call to say goodnight when they are apart - I will make eye contact when we see each other[color:#6600CC]
Goal: I will co-parent with the best of them [/color]- I will put aside our differences for S4's well being when making decisions - I will inform him of matters pertaining to S4 and ask his opinion - I will reinforce my boundaries - I will send pictures of milestones with S4 so he doesn't feel left out[color:#6600CC]
Goal: Be a better me [/color]- I will continue to attend church on Sundays - I will go to my weekly plans without fail - I will exercise 2x a week - I will catch up with my friends and see how they are doing - I will continue to make my home feel like mine[color:#6600CC]
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15