I know. I just wanted to tell her no he can not. But I am struggling being a good person and also trying not to enable her. I firmly knew this point was going to come and had to come. Does t make it easier even if I feel this will help both of us and even be ing us together again someday.
I can tell this is taking a toll on her.
I have been also struggling with the thought of hiring an investigator to find if there is an affair before I sign any separation agreement. It has been 6 months and I don't have any kind of proof. If she has she has hid it well. But I don't want to find out after spousal support is agreed and signed. I would be livid.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
