Feyth, sorry you have found yoursef in DB land. I am glad that you have decided to post so you can get more direct feedback based on your sitch. There are some really great people on here.

Can you start my telling us more about why your H wants to leave your M?

To add a signature, go to My Stuff at the top. You can find the signature section in there.

My advice for now is to read through all of the links that academy gave you, post on your thread often, and engage in other threads. It might take a bit for others to start posting.

I am in a similar sitch as you in that we do not have kids, but a fur baby. I do wonder what the R stats are for people without kids. It seems like it makes it an easier decision to walk away.

I guess I would do what your DB coach advises for FB. My H is not really active on FB, but I know his parents did mention stuff to him. His really can't post stuff about OW because they work together and are in positions they technically would not permit this. I think you can set it to hide his posts so that you would have to actually go to his profile to see anything,


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015