Zero steps forward

[Pax_luv]

Hello there,
I haven't done a good job getting into the swing of posting here, but I'd like to ask some advice about Facebook.

H and I are still "friends" and listed as Married on FB. We have many mutual friends and relatives. If he's getting ready to date (see my first post above) I know I don't want to see it as I am still very firmly attached. I am seriously considering suspending my account so I can just fully remove myself from the environment and not have to worry about gettin any glimpses of him out with ow.

On that same token, my db coach said that I could use FB as a platform to show how much I am GALing and may make him wonder.

I'm just not sure what to do--- maybe going completely dark via FB could cause him to wonder about what I'm doing, too.

Any advice? Also if it helps, I think he's falling deeper into a MLC. So I don't know if that should affect my approach. I suspected it before, but it's becoming more prevalent the longer we are separated. I'm starting to realize that I'm not the problem anymore (and have been working diligently to ensure I changed the things that needed changing) but I see him still all over the place in terms of what he wants, needs, etc.

Lastly, I'm doing this all on a mobile device and can't figure out how to create and attach the signature line. I may need guidance on that, too. .