Thank you Job

I spoke with his sister
Last time she saw him , his family wanted no contact with him until he left wife
so they have not seen him in a while
sister said OW controls him and she would not want MY D to get hurt


MY D decided to write him back and told him she would be open to talk or Skype
this way she can see him ,but she would not want to write each other

so I have low expectations that he will Skype her, but I told her I am here for her
if it doesn't work out
I still strongly suspect OW is behind this
just not sure why


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow