I spoke with his sister Last time she saw him , his family wanted no contact with him until he left wife so they have not seen him in a while sister said OW controls him and she would not want MY D to get hurt
MY D decided to write him back and told him she would be open to talk or Skype this way she can see him ,but she would not want to write each other
so I have low expectations that he will Skype her, but I told her I am here for her if it doesn't work out I still strongly suspect OW is behind this just not sure why
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow