Time to let go.....how(3)

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Do not talk to her about it.

She's going to be mad and she's going to mad often bc you are not just bending to her will. Stand up to her. She's not the boss of you. You have your own opinions and feelings and they are very valuable. She is not acting like she's your wife and does not deserve to be treated as such. My WW is often mad at me too bc I'm standing up for myself. I'm not being mean just firm when making decisions. And please understand my WW comes from a violent, abusive childhood. Anger is her go to emotion. I have seen her do things most people wouldn't believe happen. However, since I've been standing up to her and being firm in my attitude she has been showing me a lot more respect. She gets upset but nearly as much as she use to and I don't argue with her. When she begins to get disrespectful I put in my headphones and I just walk away.
Even if she doesn't come back at least I'm gaining back my manhood and no longer allow myself to be abused.

Say less, be firm and do not be a door mat