HI sotto. Concert was great had so much fun just going out me and a friend. It was something I really needed. Yes NC is for me so I can lovingly detatch a little bit. It makes me sad to not contact him but I believe it may be what is best for me. I do hope it makes him take notice but I certainly do not count on it. He is living in bliss happy happy happy in the euphoria so there is no reason he would take notice. As long as it works to help me detatch I will do good with it. I just keep reminding me its for me. Its for me to grow and learn its for my sanity its for detatchment which is all for me!
it has now been 5 days. my daughters dad is planning to take all the girls this weekend he asked me if I wanted to talk to ex about ir or him. As hard as it was to give up the opportunity for a "reason" to talk to ex I asked that he contact him and make plans. I love ex to death but I need separation also. I felt like that was a big step for me as typically I am looking for reasons for contact. No reason to if he wants the girls he can ask for them.
I am also planning to send an e-mail to him and his mom about some upcoming activities for my daughter. I will state to his m MIL: HI XXXX I figured your school e-mail was best to let you know that D has gymnastics meets XXXX days. I am not sure of times yet we will be told 3-4 weeks in advance and I will let you know more details as soon as I have them. I figured since your phone does not always work this would be best. I will also be adding them to the calendar but wanted to make sure that you were aware of them. Love 4my and D
EX- D has meets coming up on XXXXX I do not know times as of yet but I will let you know when I am made aware of them. Thanks 4my
