Working through it

[EMMess]

Azzork - I truly appreciate your responses, they are very well grounded. I do these things because I care for her, it is like I can't say no sometimes. I suppose that on some level I do have expectations, and hope that things would change. Finding the note in the trash tho, I feel was more than just not having my expectations being met, that was a mean thing to do IMHO. All in all I really appreciate it brother, it doesn't come across harsh but truthful which is a 2x4 hitting you hard. It makes me feel much better because I can see some of the stuff that I missed.

ILYNOT - thank you for always supporting me brother. I agree in the fact that I am boosting her ego, the fact that I need to move forward, stop texting, comforting her, doing favors for her that have nothing to do with the kids. She is getting the best of both words, and I have decided to stop, I will feel the hurt of knowing what I know, I will accept my feelings, and remain strong.

thank you guys for the quick responses that means a lot.