O, he is restless because he is cut off from OW, has to get his "high" somehow. Remember, an A is like an addiction, he is an addict right now, seeking a fix. Please stay out of his way and keep yourself and your children safe emotionally and physically. He is not thinking clearly and you cannot do anything right now for him, he has to work this out on his own. Can he stay with his mother or maybe a brother or someone right now?