It was a snowball affect last night!. After the first thing i told her about not wanting to talk to her about buying furniture she later came back to me with her computer and about 10 minutes before kids needed to get in bed and asked me if we can go through all of the rooms and figure out who is keeping what. I asked her, right now? she said yes, and i told her no. we have to get the kids to bed and i am tired also. She stated she needed to figure out what she had to get. i told her we can do it tomorrow evening. I know she will want o be out tof the house tomorrow evening at the gym like always while i take care of dinner and getting kids ready for bed, so we will see how that goes. The as we were getting kids ready for bed, they reminded me i said they could lay in my bed and watch a little tv to fall asleep. This drives wife crazy for some reason, and she made a comment.
So i was three for three last night making her angry. Nothing i was trying to do, but just was standing up for myself and living life. I think the first 2 were her way of temp checking me. May have made her happy that she is moving since i didnt give into her on what she wanted to do.
On another note, i have never been the best at creating goals and following through with them. I have always kept myself busy but i am now creating a list of activities of things i am going to start doing for myself and the kids. I knw this is not goals but i am going to creat this list then start sorting how i am going to accomplish and what with them. I will spin this into goals eventually.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
