H came over yesterday to help finish closing the pool. He tried to get me to sign papers for pension evaluation I told him I would take them to my lawyer. He wasn't pleased. He suggested its just two signatures no big deal. I said that is why I have retained a lawyer I need advice I can trust. These are the same papers he tried to get me to sign months ago before proof of OW when he was saying it was just to look at our finances. He has been lying to me for years I really can't believe anything he says