Sorry you weren't feeling well...glad your getting better.
I see no reason why he can't work on things.. It is still his house too.
Hell he might even be looking for an excuse to do things for you or try to start on a road home... IDK.
I know that for a while, I was so pissed at my wife cause my needs were not being met, I stopped finishing things. It was part of the whole keeping score scenario with expectations. Part of me fixing myself was trying to male sure.I followed through with things I said I would do.
