Another week begins:

Feeling a lot better after the best sleep for 3 nights.

Last night went well. After tiptoeing around each other for 10 minutes we both relaxed and conversation was good.
After dinner (I cooked for me and the boys W wasn't hungry)we watched TV as a family. W made me a cup of tea - a 180 for her! I helped get boys to bed and then excused myself early (9:15) so that W wouldn't get all cosy on the sofa watching her favourite TV shows. She watched them alone.

This morning W greeted me by her pet name for me - the first time in two weeks. W is working from home as childminder is away on holiday. As soon as boys were off to school I excused myself and went out.

Soon I'm off for a two hour bike ride then a longish drive to my hotel for the next two nights. I detaching from her mentally and physically - to change the dynamics - she wont use me as a BFF or a crutch to vent her problems.

I intend not to text or phone her unless strictly necessary.
I will also SKYPE the Boys before bed .

Onwards and upwards

Last edited by isittoolate; 10/19/15 08:45 AM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16