Good morning Z,

Just a quick word to wish you all the best for a new week.Let's make it a good one.

I am not trying to stir up things in your head, so feel free to not reply.If ad you stated lately W is in EA , are you going to go down the tougher stance route as outlined in sandi's WW thread? Maybe the boundary you set is enough to start but I am just wondering if you are going to change your approach?

Reading between the lines I get the impression you may not force the transparency plan to be sure boundary is respected. Whereas I understand you wanting to trust her, and you wanting to believe she believes it is just s friendship. Maybe clearing your head and expressing your sentiments is enough at this stage as that should not be your main focus.

Anyway I hope all is going as well as can be for you.

All my best


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together