Flight, you summed it up perfectly. I got the same canned script from my WW a few weeks ago. That she wasn't really cheating because she had emotionally divorced me years ago. Funny how she never bothered telling me that. Too bad for WW that isn't how marriage works. As long as we're legally married, it's still cheating! It's crazy talk so no use in even trying to make sense of it. You hope that some day they come out of the fog enough to realize it for themselves and maybe even admit how wrong they were.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.