O, Idk what is going on in their minds either. My H is taking a job which will be 100% travel for 6 months. He will miss Christmas and everything leading up to it, our D's 15th birthday, the entire winter with sledding and snowball fights, cozy nights by the fireplace, the kids basketball season, Easter, school concerts, the list goes on and on. Doesn't even phase him at all. Meanwhile, I miss them like crazy if I miss a day, or even only part of a day. I don't get it at all. He is so disconnected from our kids that I don't think it will even make a difference to them, how sad is that?
