I'm so happy to read that the party was a huge success. Your h was curious about the party and who knows...maybe he wanted an invitation to come. LOL! I wonder which mask he would have worn.

I'm sure the one father was curious about your situation, since he's gone thru his own divorce. It's okay that you didn't share much w/him...he doesn't need to know all of your business or that of your h's.

I'm very proud of you for not responding back last time to your h. I'm also proud of you that you've put it out there about the holidays and the key to the lake house. It's definitely sending messages to your h that you are moving on in little steps.

As you continue to walk the path, you will move at your own pace and when you do have those light bulb moments, you will step back and say "now I see". It all takes time. Don't rush the process.

I hope that you are able to get some rest this evening and will be up and ready to go tomorrow. It's a new week!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.