Thank you for your comment, I agree. It's probably holding me back as well since in my mind I wonder why he doesnt finalize it. One of the other reasons I have not pursued it is for insurance reasons. It looks like if I want to get it done. I will have to do it myself. For some reason he does not want to do it. You'd think after being with her for 2 years he'd want to get it done! He always says he wants it finished and behind him but does nothing!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.