Thank you for your comment, I agree.
It's probably holding me back as well since in my mind I wonder why he doesnt finalize it.
One of the other reasons I have not pursued it is for insurance reasons. It looks like if I want to get it done. I will have to do it myself. For some reason he does not want to do it. You'd think after being with her for 2 years he'd want to get it done! He always says he wants it finished and behind him but does nothing!


M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.