""I've been thinking/wondering lately why God would put me through all of the crap I've been through in the last five years. There has to be a reason. The best one I can come up with is to make me a better/stronger/more compassionate person maybe.""
Or maybe it was to spare you the anger, pain and confusion of her journey ??? Maybe it wasn' t done to you but to her ?? You are a GOOD MAN. You know that.. God know that and so does everyone on here. It is changing us into even better people. WHY? Because we want to. We could have easely chosen destructive paths but we didn' t. We could have become alcoholics, drug attict, ( feel this space with self medication crap ) and feel sorry for ourselves and using this challenge as our justification. But we did not.. We are using this to grow and learn.. THIS IS WHY I LOVE THIS SITE.. It helps us understand not MLC but ourselves. It keeps us on the right track. it is a safe place to vent and to cry and to help one another.
