You are right tl2. One thing that I want to be better at, and teach the boys, is to be completely self sufficient. Not that they or I can't get help when needed, just not be CD. Be strong, happy with themselves, play the hand they are dealt to the best of their ability.
It is not selfish to go after what you want, as long as it doesn't cost somebody else or hurt someone. Selfish is doing something, no matter the cost. Sorry, venting a bit
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
