Yes Grl experiencing that with the kids is a hard thing...even worse that she doesn't see it as a big deal. But I'm learning not to focus on my disgust or disbelief in what she says or does.
Out of my hands for the most part since very little communication.
Frankly, I don't think she sees it as a loss. She sees it as her doing everyone a favor because she's been projecting her own unhappiness onto everyone else. I don't see that fog lifting, and according to her, her therapist has supposedly told her that she doesn't think there's any way for the M to get better and so agrees with W. Whether that's accurate or not I don't know.
She seems to be thinking that she's doing us all a favor and everything will be find once she rips the band-aid off as quickly as possible so that we can all get over the sting and move on. And in doing so she is once again acting completely contrary to every value she has always said she upholds, and acting in total contradiction to her faith.
And she's got a lot of friends who've done similar things, and a therapist to rubber stamp it.
