PP, Great insight, as usual. There will always be nuances in my dealings with XW. I just need to keep doing my thang and not worry about her one bit. Whether I'm D or not D doesn't really change anything until I'm ready to begin dating again anyway.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15