Hi Sotto, thanks for your input! I have been wondering if the family dinners were a way for him to eat cake.
I guess I will just have to skip the family dinners. Until I hear something more definitive from H.
I don't really know how much contact he has with the OW but I suppose if he is serious about R, he would have to tell me that he's ready to cut off all contact woth her and prove it.
Until then, 'Detach, GAL, rinse and repeat.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.