Hi Not again please. I'm sorry to hear you are still experiencing barriers. I would agree that you need someone who acts for you alone, and who will move ahead as you (and no-one else) instructs. It's probably best to accept that you'll need to make a small investment in your own best interests and to move things forward.

From now on, this can free you from the current L, who will become your H's L if that's what he wants. I would be clear with everyone about your choice, so there is is no ambiguity. Once you have selected your L, you can just advise H and the L that X is now acting on my behalf in this matter. I think once you take control in this way it will end the understandable frustration you've been feeling.

Good luck with things xx

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Me 48 H 46
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