Gmum, I have been reading your sitch and like you, I have a young daughter.


You sound like you're doing great, what with the full -time child minding and all.

I find hot baths, massages, DIY facials to be really good for destressing.

So I would say, wine, mindless TV, and if possible, in a hot bath.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.