I am wondering if I should go back to joining XH and kid on their almost daily dinners. Things are really strange with us. Three months before the D, XH, kid and I were having dinners almost every day. That was the time when XH was still considering the idea of R.
2 months after the D, XH and kid are still having dinners almost every day. I stopped joining them after the D as I was really hurt by some of the things that took place during the D negotiations and I didn't want to run kid's time with XH.
The thing is, after I stopped joining them, XH texted that he had never asked me to stop joining them, and that he didn't say he didn't want to see me.
Since then, I have joined them about 3 times. The last 2 times, things were quite civil and I could see that XH was no longer putting the distance between us. Occasionally, he would even initiate conversation, something that I had always had to do on our dinners together.
Last edited by Grlonfr; 10/18/1506:36 AM.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
