Sandi
I take my kids as my one and only responsibility. I come after that. It will always be that way. I'm not sure anything anyone can say will change that.
I know the situation should not affect that but I will always protect them from any instances where i think they need. I know they need their mom and this was a time where I decide to step in and make sure they didn't have a tainted look on her. Was it right? Don't know. Nothing to change now.
I had known I will have individual time with them today and questions would be asked. The questions did come. I told d that I will always be honest with her and gave her some insight to the situation. Without me flat out saying this is what mommy wants she now understands things.

On another note I have decided on a private investigator before I sign a separations agreement. I realized I am still very much in love with her at this point and was clouded. I need to know all facts and see if I still feel the same. I was fooling myself trying to not know. I would hate to a agree to some support and find truth after.

Last edited by otw; 10/18/15 02:48 AM.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15