...I would rather let EXW go than risk anymore hurt...
Hurt is not your W's exclusive domain, others can do that to you too, the difference is that she's a known(ish) quantity...
Originally Posted By: rd500
... I've thought about the posts all week and even though EXW has called and text more than normal and has reached out in a couple of ( potentially ) positive ways I still think it's time to move on.
That must have been painful but brave. Go with your heart and mind.
Originally Posted By: rd500
...I/C did offer to see EXW for free but I haven't told EXW as it hasn't come up..
When it does, don't forget the offer. She's your kids mother and they deserve someone who they can enjoy life with and and I/C will help her to recover herself and be there for them.
Originally Posted By: rd500
...As you can imagine I was heart broken but since Zane left it hasn't felt the same for me anyway ...
I feel for you. Zane was the magic in that band. Who is Zane?
Originally Posted By: rd500
I told her no as the car was already full of three teenage girls going to a concert and no place for S16...
Correct me if I am wrong, you drive an RR, right? 3 teenagers on the back seat would each ride in sumptuous comfort. Was it more that you wanted to eat on your own?
Originally Posted By: rd500
The joys of being a dad
Immense, aren't they.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
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