I think it's really great that you have young kids right now and have all those fun activities with them that are still going on.
I realize this kind of a sitch is really tough, in many ways, when the kids are young. On the other hand, one of the things that always helped me back in the day was there were so many things going on with the kids that it forced my attention on positive things. Plus, as you know, being with the kiddos is just great fun and their love for their dad is an amazing thing for dad to experience.
