Hi 4my - good for you. And the important thing to remember is you're not NC to provoke a reaction. You're NC because he is in a R with someone else and you have your own life to live. You don't need to be texting good morning to someone else's boyfriend...
Sometimes a bit of NC makes a WAS sit up and take notice - but best not to 'look for' that. Just live your own life and let him get on with his life for now. Maintain your own principles and work on your growth. I had an absolute realisation recently that the person I grow into being as a result of this experience is so much more important than whether my H and me get back together again.
You are doing well 4my....enjoy your weekend xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus