Thanks Rouky. I smiled reading about the cake! So lucky to have you on my side. I just can't laugh right now.
My wife isn't pushing for the divorce papers. I guess I should not worry so much about it. Every time I start to work on it I get so sad and just can't finish. Part of me wants it to be over though.
Interesting that you swim. I live in a rural area and there isn't a good option for swimming. I do love to do it however. I do need to step up my workout a little though as I have been slacking. I have given up on running that 5k. It seems as if I am in a downward spiral.
I will keep posting here but sometimes I worry that I will bring you down. You have been through so much. I do look forward to reading about everyone's DB efforts here and usually find a good deal of encouragement. So please keep stalking me and thank you so much for lifting my spirits. I hope that I can do the same for you :-)
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.