I am evolving and adapting to my new normal. I am not expecting much from my wife. I hope that she will come around to considering to share her life with me. Until she warms to that idea I will just live a life of solitude. I will enjoy my children and my interests. With each day that goes by I feel more independent and less desperate with certain possible outcomes.
I believe I maybe distancing myself from my wife emotional. I am not confident that my wife wants a life with me. This might be a psychological defensive measure and if so I'm not sure if I should care that I'm doing it. The only thing that happens if I am wrong is that my wife wants me back.
The question is does my distancing myself psychologically as a defensive measure affect my chances of reconciling with my wife?
