I would suggest that if you want the divorce finalized, then you need to get your own attorney. It's very evident that he's not going to do anything about it and since the attorney is on his dime...they aren't going to speak to you.

Is he happy? I seriously doubt it...but that's not your problem.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.