TxHubby - that is some good advice! The last thing I want to talk about is OW, but he keeps bringing it up, and I get annoyed. It never occurred to me there might be even more to the story.
I will be thanking him for being honest. I'm stunned, honestly. If I filed today, that man would be in a world of hurt. Obviously not going to do that. I want the real H to come out of hiding and rejoin me!