I get it. Thank you for the reminder. I don't trust her but I want to. I know I can't though and she is running on pure emotion right now. I am hopeful she snaps out of it.
But you can't trust her. Yes, she is running on pure emotion, but IMHO, it is worse than a somewhat "normal" person's emotions. It is the accumulation of negative things that has been building in her. And as for her snapping out of it.......I have not heard one story that confirms a WW snapping out of it. That is not to say she can't come out, however, "to snap" indicates a fast all-in-one action. It won't happen that way. Something could happen to definitely get her attention and the dots start connecting.
For a while now, I have mentioned to LBH'S the dynamics in the relationship with their WW. Today, I sent a very long post to another LBH, who has in-house separation, about an article on this subject. It seemed to confuse him, so I am hesitant to copy it again. If you want to read it, visit Vise's thread and see posts for today.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
