It's solid you if it's about protecting yourself and the children... Not if your are looking to get a reaction
For me and the mediation, I accepted that D was what W felt she needed/wanted and I respected that, that being said it wasn't something I wanted ... Had it been I would not have been here. I did not help in setting these things up, I did however like you ... Found out what my rights were and I more than once voiced I would not settle for anything less than what I felt was fair. Not mean not angry.. But firm and confident I would walk away just fine... I was able to remove the emotions in the mediation process, even was happy n chipper understanding that this was on her, her choice ... And I would make lemonade out of the lemons she was trying to throw at me.
Parenting plan.... I think shows strength and something a concerned and involved father would put into place to protect his rights to the kids ... So yeah I think it's solid provided you aren't trying to guilt her or force her hand in someway
