I forgot to mention that my state also requires a 90 day waiting period before any divorce proceedings can be done. With that being said I have at least 4 months where we need to co-exist and create these boundaries. I still want to "win" her back, but need to be the best me first and stop being Mr. Nice Guy.

So any advice on my post above?

Me-29 W-29
M 5 years (2010)
Kids S-6 S-5
W Ring Off: 9/28/15
Filed: 10/12/15