I wish I could understand my stbx mindset and had a crystal ball. I continue to live my life and no longer ask or imply there will ever be an us. Almost 2 weeks ago we had an argent and again I asked when the divorce will be done. He again said you have to agree to 2 items. I said "fine I will'! He said he'd contact her that day and get it done. And like all the other times nothing! I have emailed the attorney and she ignores me, since it his attorney we are just both using her. I guess I need my own to get it done? He says is very happy and in love with his girlfriend and I can see that true. So why not divorce me? We have no relationship we barely talk. Its been 2 years. H came over yesterday to pick up the kids I talked to him for a minute with the dark black tunnel in his eyes. he really does not want to talk to me I asked him a few questions about a job interview he went on. He told me a little bit about it but it looked like I was giving him a root canal. As usual he never asks about me but I don't expect it. Not much is changed in his life he works about 7 days a week 12 hours a day. That says he's happy?
Last edited by NotAgainPlease; 10/16/1505:08 PM.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
