Hate to be the harbinger of doom mate and I don't want to be Mr Buzz Kill but that sounds very much like breadcrumbs to me mate. You still need to detach. She's temp checking you buddy and the more you lap up the crumbs the more she will play you. She isn't experiencing much in the way of loss now is she?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
