Holidays,

In the past the kids and us celebrated Christmas at my W side of the family house, we never did anything as a family in our own house, which I found weird. Now with me not going to the in laws anymore it leaves me out of the picture. Kids are not going to know at that point I think. I don't know why we cant just have Christmas morning in our house then W and kids can go to W family house for dinner?

I know there is going to be a push for me to keep everything the same as years past and go act like nothing has changed. If I don't I will be alone as I don't talk to my side of the family.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016