Here's My Story...Need Guidance

[wiseman]

Mowgli, I would love to do that! Unfortunately the state I live in has "common law" and I can't kick her out. She has also refused to leave until the D is finalized because it may look like abandonment of the kids.

I have all this evidence, but can't see to set boundaries that are actually enforceable. The last thing I want to do is say something, not be able to enforce it, and then appear weak.