I struggled with this as well. I then thought about the kids need both parents. I will not jeopardize the relationship with their mother. They will eventually know the truth. I won't deny that I would like it to work out if they ask.

It is very hard to not lie but also protect certain things.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15